"Maybe there are few versions of 380 me gum - in Lithuania we can buy these - it is said that their power is lower than 7,5 J, but nobody knows exactly"
I don not want to break your country's laws. But.
If this loooong cartridge fits into a chamber, you can load it with normal 9 mm Knall+10 mm rubber from the rear, and shoot it out with 30-50 Joules depending on the gun and knallpatrone.
If it is illegal, just forget it.
(I suppose you have the same revolvers as Russians, but differently loaded ammo.)